Champion,

I have put off writing this because putting these words on paper makes this reality feel more real than I want to acknowledge. But you deserve to be honored, and I could never let this moment pass without expressing what you have meant to me.

I cannot believe I am even writing this in this moment. It feels like a terrible dream that I cannot wake up from. From the moment I came into this world crying, you have been there as more than just an uncle, but a father figure. Even now, as I write this tribute with tears rolling down my face, your presence is still felt.

Your presence never wavered. It never faltered. You were a constant through all of life’s ups and downs, and now that constant has been disrupted. Whenever my mom needed support with me, you were there. Whether it was picking me up from school while she was at work, helping me find my first car, cheering me on at my high school graduation, guiding me into my first apartment, or standing beside me as I became a mother, you were always there.

I especially remember how after school pickup you would be waiting with a box of pizza. As a child I loved it. After what felt like the 37th box, I was completely over pizza. But you did that just to put smiles on our faces. You made sure our bellies were full, and it always came with a lesson to feed our minds too. That was who you were. You cared not only about providing, but about teaching, guiding, and pouring wisdom into us.

After my mom passed, you remained. You never left my corner. When it was time to navigate adult responsibilities like filing taxes, getting car insurance, securing an apartment, and earning certifications to elevate myself, you were there. If there was ever a question I had about anything, I knew I could call you. You embodied what it means to be multifaceted and agile in every aspect of life. A jack of all trades, or should I say the “Joe” of all trades.

I find some peace in knowing that you and my mom are now reunited in spirit, laughing together. Please let her know we are doing alright. Tell her how much of her personality Parker has and how calm and charming Malachi is.

Thank you for blessing me with my siblings, not by blood or relation but by pure, unwavering love: Maliz, Chanel, and Joey. Please rest knowing that I will always be there for them and for Mommy Eve, no matter what.

I will never forget the first time I called you Champion. Everyone looked confused at first, then we all laughed in unison. But it stuck because it was the truth. I called you that because that is what you were and always will be. A champion, a winner, an overcomer, an advocate, a giant.

You have left an imprint on so many, and your legacy will live far beyond your physical presence. You will be remembered for your generosity, your dependability, and your deep love for people. I will miss you dearly, but I was blessed to have you in my life in this lifetime, and for that I am eternally grateful.

Rest in eternal peace, Champion.

Love always,
Elsie